A while back I wrote about how I have been guided to give my services unconditionally. I wanted to give an update about what else has transpired since I followed that guidance.
There have been a few very generous people who have given straight from the heart and truly understand giving unconditionally.

But things keep coming in unusual ways!
I wrote last time about the free reading I received from a wonderful person named Kalie Noelle.

A few weeks ago, I won the grand prize in a Hay House contest that I had registered for a few months ago. That’s the first contest I have ever won!

Last weekend, I was in LA to assist in an event that hosted Braco, the Croatian Gazer (Healer). During the 15 minute cab ride from the airport, I had a conversation with the cab driver about many things. I was his only fare in five hours. When we arrived at the hotel, he told me that the cab ride was free! As much as I appreciated that gesture of appreciation, I could not accept it and actually gave him twice the fare. But, once again the Divine gave me another gift in his offering me the free fare in the reality of being his only customer.

At the event, I had the blessing of being able to stand in front of Braco for two and a half days. It was amazing!

When you trust that everything is unfolding just the way it is supposed to be, then Life just flows.

It came to me recently that practicing Law of Attraction is like taking a drug. A drug is a vibrational frequency that is taken to neutralize another vibrational pattern in your body. Practicing Law of Attraction (LOA) is attempting to change a vibrational pattern in your mind by using different thought (vibration). Both attempt to make you feel better.

Sometimes the drug/thoughts work. Sometimes it seems like they don’t. The results can be very quick or very slow. When you don’t have the exact vibrational fit, then there are side effects. Neither get you to the root cause which is our beliefs. In LOA it is said that it works because you address the root cause namely your thoughts. And beliefs are just persistent thoughts. Just adding better feeling thoughts on top of chronic beliefs is just a cover up like a drug. Then, you feel better until the next…..happens.

When they don’t seem to work (drugs or LOA), we blame ourselves or point to someone else to blame for it not working. We question what’s wrong with us, our worthiness, intelligence…etc. We try harder, add other things, get different opinions and the list goes on and on as our trouble remains.

There is only one way to understand your beliefs. You have to get to know them, question them and then allow them to die. I will discuss this more in future posts.

LOA helps, just like drugs do sometimes. But our dependence on them just covers up the deeper issues.

Until recently, I had been a big fan of the Law of Attraction. In fact, I lead two Meetup Groups whose only focus used to be the Law of Attraction. I am very well versed on the subject and can give an answer to almost any question there is on the subject. And I loved Abraham-Hicks and still do because their work has great value for many. There is nothing wrong with following LOA, but the way it is understood by most, it is used like a drug.

Recently, I have been guided to give my services unconditionally.  It’s been a powerful demonstration to me of the way the universe works.

At first, there was some resistance to doing this.  Where would my income come from?  How am I to live?  Fear showed up in the form of doubting, not trusting and self worth.  I am so glad that these things showed up so that I could look at the beliefs and let them go.

I also saw that giving unconditionally opens the door to receiving so much more from the universe.  When you don’t restrict giving to conditions, the flow that comes is so grand that it cannot be described with words.

And by doing this, it allows for my clients to look at the subject of giving and expand their lives.  It’s a win-win situation.  I have known for a long time that giving is receiving and receiving is giving.  Are you open to this process?

I want to share a recent story that occurred.  The other day I received an email from a most gifted communicator who speaks to and listens to our higher selves and provides amazing guidance from them.  Her name is Kalie Noelle and her website is: KalieNoelle.com .  I haven’t spoken or received a reading from her for quite some time.  She said that she was sitting down to do some emails and she got the message from her guides to offer Fred a free session.  And it was an amazing session!  That’s how amazing the universe is!  You are always provided for.

I am not saying that you should not charge for your services or quit your job (unless you are guided to do that!).  I am saying that trusting your inner guidance will always provide you the most fulfilling journey.

Understanding giving unconditionally is a gift for me and you from the universe.

Understanding Allowing into 2010 language.

Recently, it came to me that if you know how to do a Google search, then you know how to allow!  You just might not realize it!

When you are trying to find something or someone, you type a question on Google and hit the send button.  At this point, you don’t try to guess the answer or figure it out.  You wait and voila…the internet (Source) provides you with many possibilities.  So, to recap, you press the send button, LET GO and TRUST the answer will appear.  You don’t sit there and wonder if you will receive results similar to the past or worry that the next time you search there won’t be an answer.  You stay PRESENT and the results reveal themselves to you.

What happens when you are too specific in your request?  The internet (Source) responds with a very limited amount of options.

What happens if you ask the same question over and over again?  The internet (Source)  provides you with the same results over and over.  The internet (Source) does not scold you for asking over and over again.  Simply the same information is repeated.

What if you don’t see the results that you are looking for?  You ask a different question and get different results.

And when you click on one of the results, you decide if it is what you are looking for and you follow that path, which then leads you in a specific way.

But what if you click on a result and decide that it’s not for you?  You can either go back to the other possibilities that were on the previous page, ask again or ask in a different way.

What about speed!

It depends on the type of modem/connection you have!  Do you use a very slow dial-up (mind) connection?  You know, one that you have to manually connect to with a phone line that is used for other purposes and is not dedicated to your computer.  Or do you have a high speed (heart), always connected broadband connection that is always available?  High speed connections are less resistant, allowing more information to pass through.

What happens if you share a WIFI connection?  It’s not as reliable, inconsistent and it is easy to loose the signal.  Having a dedicated high speed line is much better!

What happens when I use a high speed connection and a slow computer?

If you can’t upgrade your operating system (beliefs), then it may be time to buy a new computer!!  Be willing to let go of the outdated system.

What happens when you loose the connection?

When you loose the connection, whatever the problem, the internet (Source) is still there.

Can you see how Allowing is just like a Google search?

As of Feb. 1,  2010, Just Allow It is going to have a new home in Wilmette, IL.  The address is 297 Green Bay Rd. and is located just South of Jewel Foods.

This location is easily accessible to residence of the North Shore and 15 minutes from the Chicago border.  I will also be available at my current Chicago location.

From finding the location to the point of opening has been a wonderful example of what happens when you allow everything to be the way it is, stay present and follow the flow.  In a future post, I will share more details about this.